POSITIVE does not = HONEST
HONESTY does not = POSITIVITY
So what positivity is for me is seeing the good in the situation and keep moving forward..no matter what. And that’s good. But what would be great is if I drew from honesty as well. Because when you are trying to be positive all the time, it can propel you into delusion or even worse, denial. We must make a conscience commitment to reality. Being honest with yourself and the honoring the situation honestly, creates the opporutnity for growth instead of staying in a stagnant place.
We can’t be scared to be honest. We have to own what is that is inside of us. Whatever feelings needs to be confronted confront them. Whatever feelings need to be expressed, express them. I’ve been struggling with activating this into my life but I keep practicing this in all my inner dialogues and relationships. I find myself brushing my own feelings under the rug and choosing positivity, and then I stop myself. I find that positivity is reaching into my own strength for the situation instead of allowing the Holy Spirit to encourage me and give me the courage to also draw from a place of honesty.
Or, when someone says something that I dont agree with I respond honestly to them and I stay gentle and kind (positive) while doing it so that it transfers well (LOVE). You do not have to agree with people to love them.
– H O N E S T Y B U I L D S R E S P E C T –
Operating in fear of what really is creates a false reality.
Then with fear comes anxiety and anxiety actually SPLITS REALITY and portions off into brokeness.
-NO MORE FEAR OF WHAT IS || NO MORE HIDING-
If your fear in a situation is that being honest with a person might hurt the other person’s feelings, then don’t hurt the other’s persons feelings. No one said the truth has to be brutal and hurtful. But at the same time, that doesn’t mean you ignore the truth that you have. You explain to them what it is you disagree with or want or need in a loving and positive way. 🙂
So I encourage you all in any and every moment to draw from your soul a beautiful positive energy and draw from your spirit that beautiful righteous character of God you have inside of you where honesty lives. This will flow an incredibly loving and encouraging reality.
I LOVE YOU