This is all about any type of human to human relationship, discovery of how you or me are in them, how to be better we can get at them. Learn technique. Practice technique. Forget technique.
“In an old Japanese story, retold by Yasunari Kawabata, a bamboo cutter one day sees a stalk of bamboo that seems illuminated from within and he finds there a tiny baby girl. He and his wife adopt her. ~She becomes gorgeous and ALL the men fall in love with her but she has no desire to marry. So she agrees to marry but the suitor … Continue reading No Comparison
So I was talking to a friend of mine who is going through a break up. She has been single now for 2 months and she was explaining how she needs to love herself before she can be attractive to another. Taking care of yourself, being healthy, staying active, and having happy habits are important traits to be drawn and create happy relationships. [ L o … Continue reading You Are The Proof
You know… I love being a woman. I take A LOT of pride in my womanhood and I want nothing less but for me to be as GOOD of a woman as possible. While I was rising in age, I had these images in my mind, influenced by my experiences on what it “looked” like to be an awesome woman. As I obtained these ideas … Continue reading Human
I’ve learned that life is about decisions. We have relationships with people so they help guide you, mentor you, and give their perspective on whats best for you. Discern those words; listen but reflect and decide whether those words come from goodness or ego/darkness/not the will of God. As you go through life, you have these people that KNOW you: your habits, your weaknesses, and your … Continue reading Have NO FEAR with Anyone
Communication tips when consoling a friend. Listen. Validate. Comfort. Maybe even Relate. And if you don’t relate, figure out a SOLUTION together. Give your advice. Be gentle. Lead into it.Learn Technique. Practice Technique. FORGET TECHNIQUE. In general, as women we’re naturally like this when it comes to our path of speaking but we don’t always use the right stones. Remember to LISTEN and be HONEST … Continue reading Validate the Hurt
Dolly Parton once said “Growing aint gonna happen if you aint doin it on purpose.” Or in my eyes, with a purpose. ~~~~~ During my new resurrection and creation this year I’ve made a conscious choice to not have a phone for a little while. And that was justified in my opinion because I knew that I needed to see life without that layer of … Continue reading Sustain Your Life
POSITIVE does not = HONEST HONESTY does not = POSITIVITY So what positivity is for me is seeing the good in the situation and keep moving forward..no matter what. And that’s good. But what would be great is if I drew from honesty as well. Because when you are trying to be positive all the time, it can propel you into delusion or even worse, denial. We must make a … Continue reading Honestly….
There is something about living life and feeling so good!!!, that you want every person you love to be there with you. It’s definitely something you learn when you travel. Because a large piece of the pizza pie of traveling, has this truth about the moments when you realize how incredible life is and when you see it and feel it you want the people … Continue reading Sharing Stories
